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Many men want to know how to make a woman want them sexually, but they don’t understand what actually works.
Instead, they end up turning her off in 5-20 different ways — all without realizing it. Watch this video to learn what actually turns women on and off.
1. Make Her Feel Attractive
If you want a woman to feel attracted to you, you need to show her that you find her desirable. You can do this by complimenting her, not just during foreplay but at random times as well. Compliment her on not only her looks but also her non-physical attributes, such as her intelligence or magical imagination. This will make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the world in your eyes.
Another way to make her feel attractive is by expressing your passion and enthusiasm for life. This will create a strong emotional connection and make her see that you’re worth fighting for.
Finally, you can make her feel attracted by showing her that you’re a confident and assured man. This will boost her self-esteem and spark sexual confidence in her as well.
Women often lose interest in intimacy because they think their partner doesn’t find them desirable. If she feels this, she may stop trying to elicit orgasm and could fall into the friend zone. If you can help her to rekindle her desire by building trust and an emotional connection, she will begin to open up about her feelings with you.
Many men try to impress a woman by showing off their wealth or other tangible achievements. However, these things don’t necessarily make her feel attracted to them. Instead, you need to make her feel like she’s the most important thing in your life and that you’ll never give up on her.
2. Make Her Feel Special
One of the best ways to make a woman feel special is to show her that you appreciate and value her. This can be done by making small gestures like holding the door for her, saying “I love you” in private, or buying her flowers just because. By doing these things, she will know that you see her as something unique and special in this world.
Another way to make her feel special is by giving her your undivided attention. This can be done by paying attention to her body language and listening carefully when she talks. This will give her the sense that you are interested in what she has to say and that she is important to you. This will make her feel special, and she will be more likely to trust you and open up to you in the future.
When she feels special, she will be more likely to allow you to escalate in the bedroom. If she has deep moral or religious beliefs that prevent her from having sex, don’t try to force her into changing her views. However, if she is willing to explore sexual pleasure with you, then it’s important to understand what her erogenous zones are. By using gentle strokes, light kisses, and rubbing on different areas of her body, you can figure out what turns her on.
3. Make Her Feel Like She’s the Only One
It can be easy for guys to think that they need to be the hottest guy, have tons of money or treat her like shit to make a woman want them sexually. But the truth is that most of what turns a woman on happens in her unconscious mind. So if you know what to say and do, you can trigger her erotic activation sequence and turn her on like never before!
One of the best ways to do this is to tell her how special she is to you. This could be as simple as telling her you find her beautiful or describing how she makes your heart sing. Or it could be more intimate by asking her about her deepest fantasies or letting her hear about yours.
While it’s important to let her know you’re interested, you should also give her space and not text her or call her all the time. This will allow her to miss you and create a sense of tension that can be very sexually invigorating.
It’s also important to avoid comparing her to other women as this can be very off-putting. This is especially true if you’re trying to create an emotional connection with her and make her feel close to you. However, if there is a real problem with her current relationship, stress or mental health issues, it’s probably not going to be possible to unlock her desire for you.
4. Make Her Feel Like You’re the One
Girls are attracted to what makes them feel safe, and sexually that means they need to know they can trust you. This is where your emotional connection comes in. Make her feel like she can depend on you emotionally, and she’ll be less likely to resist your physical advances in the bedroom.
Show her that you’re devoted to her by making small gestures throughout the day. It can be something as simple as sending her a cute text or telling her how much you love her during dinner. Even better is a surprise gift. Make her a special collage of all the things you saved from dates, including brochures, ticket stubs, and receipts that mean something to both of you. It’s a simple way to let her know she’s the only one for you.
Don’t go overboard with hints that you want to be exclusive, though. You don’t want to make her feel pressured into sex when she isn’t ready for it. However, it’s important to make her aware that you are interested in her in a way that shows her your intentions are pure and that you respect her boundaries. In addition, don’t compare her to other women or talk about other women you’ve been with in the past. These types of comments can hurt her feelings and cause her to think that you’re not as dedicated to her as you say you are.
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