Guys like girls who are sexy. But sexiness is more than just being a tease and flirting. It also includes your behavior and habits.
For instance, gossiping is a major turn off for most men. And if you lay in bed like a dead starfish without much participation, he will get bored.
1. Look Your Best
Men are visual creatures, and when they see you looking your best, it turns them on. You can look your best by making sure you wear clean, pressed clothing that highlights your figure. Try pairing a fitted dress with feminine accessories like jewelry and heels.
A spritz of perfume can add a sensual, seductive, and recognizable scent to your body. When he smells that particular perfume, it can remind him of you and trigger a number of different sensory reactions in him, including arousal. Try a fragrance with hints of sandalwood, bergamot, vanilla, rose, or cinnamon.
Investing in quality lingerie and underwear is another way to improve your overall attractiveness. Choose tights and pantyhose that are ethically made with sustainable, comfortable, and sexy materials to help you feel good about yourself.
If he’s not responding to your flirting or physical contact, it could be that he’s not interested. It’s important to respect his boundaries and give him space. But if he’s flirting back or acting sexually interested in you, it’s okay to initiate and take things to the next level.
No one wants a partner whose mind is not sharp, so make time to keep yours healthy by reading regularly and challenging yourself with mental activities. Being physically fit and hygienic will also help you feel confident, which is an attractive quality for any man.
2. Be Intentional
As you spend more time with your partner, it’s easy to lose sight of how to be sexually attractive for him. But there are simple things you can do to reignite the spark.
A few small acts can make him feel special and remind him how lucky he is to have you. A flirtatious touch on the shoulder or cheek, a long gaze with a stranger, wearing sexy clothes—these are all easy ways to let him know that you’re interested in him and want him.
It’s a major red flag if he stops fantasizing about you or having sex with you. He might start avoiding the topic of sex altogether or shift away from you when you try to bring it up. He might also stop showing intimate gestures like touching your arm, shoulder, or neck, and might avoid making eye contact with you during sex.
Compliment him based on what you know about him, not on his looks or achievements (unless those are true of course). And don’t forget to compliment him on his qualities that you find most attractive in him. For example, if he’s generous or thoughtful, or if he’s good with kids, these are both qualities that make him a great partner. You can also compliment him on things he doesn’t always feel confident about, like his intelligence or his problem-solving skills.
3. Be Seductive
Sexual attraction plays a huge role in a relationship, but it’s not the only thing. A lot of sexiness comes from non-sexual touch and actions, which can help keep the fire in your love life alive and hot. A few things to try: a playful kiss on the cheek, a shoulder or neck rub, and whispering in their ear (make sure they’re comfortable with this before trying it). A spritz of a sexy perfume can also make them think about you, and may even spark a desire they didn’t know they had.
When you give him a compliment, be more specific than “you look great” or “that’s an awesome shirt”. Compliment him on his body, but also on what he does well at work or at home. This helps his ego and makes him feel like he’s the best version of himself, which is pretty sexy.
Speaking at a slower pace than usual can also make him see you in a different light. It doesn’t have to be comically slow, just a little less quick than your natural pacing. And last but not least, a lot of people claim that speaking with a foreign accent is very seductive, so go ahead and give it a try! Just don’t use it all at once, or he’ll think you’re trying to impress his boss.
4. Make Him Want You
A guy wants to feel desired. That’s why it’s so important to make him want you. This means that you need to give him reasons to chase after you.
One way to do this is by showing him that you’re a woman who can take charge. Many men find it sexy when women are confident in their own decisions and opinions. You can show this by telling him what you think and how you feel about certain things.
Another way to show your confidence is by flirting with him. Flirting is a great way to create sexual tension and it also makes you more appealing to him. Flirting doesn’t have to be anything too over the top; just a little bit of eye contact and playful body language will do the trick.
You can also show your confidence by giving him a compliment now and then. Men aren’t necessarily driven by praise, but they do appreciate it when their girlfriends compliment them. When you compliment him, it’s important to be sincere and genuine.
Finally, you can show your confidence by stroking your clitoris or bringing out your favorite vibrator when you’re in bed with him. This will turn him on like crazy and leave him sexually wanting you. Another way to show your confidence is by encouraging him in his goals. This will show him that you’re a strong, independent woman and it will make him respect you more.
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